Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Happy Birth-Month Samuel!!

So Samuel had his birthday this month. . . earlier this month. . . but the month is not officially over for several more hours - hah - so I'm still good to go with this post I think.

Happy Birth-Month Samuel!  Nine-Years-Old!!!



*Samuel's favorite subject in school is Math because it just makes sense to him.  (And Mom suspects it is also because it often requires the least amount of writing to answer a question.)

*He really enjoys humor and often wants to share a good joke he has heard.

*Samuel LOVES TO TALK. . . kinda like his mom. . . 

*Samuel is an amazing helper in the kitchen!  He makes wonderful scrambled eggs and waffles.  He is also eager to assist in whatever way I may ask.

*This year I let Samuel light the candles on the Advent wreath.  He did not even burn the house down or anything.

*Samuel is my best cleaner/picker-upper/doer of what Mom and/or Dad say to do.  He often does whine a little, but when push comes to shove, he gets done what he is supposed to do - and generally does the best job of all his siblings, even his older sister that often gets distracted!

*Samuel enjoys roller skating and used his own money to buy a pair of skates last year.  He uses them on the sidewalk when the weather is nice.

*He learned to write in cursive this year and produces very nice handwriting when he really tries.


Dear God, thank you for the blessing of Samuel!  May you continue to mold him in grace and virtue, ever-closer to the man you desire him to be.  - Amen



Saturday, December 19, 2015

Advent Updates

So the title might make you think that I'm going to be doing some deep reflecting on the season of Advent, but I tricked you because I actually am just using that title because it IS Advent and these are some of the things I have been noticing.  So while some MAY have to do with the liturgical season, I actually chose the title simply because of timing.  In any case, if you are still reading this, feel free to read on. . .


The Children:

Zipporah reminds me of a little monkey as she toddles around, all bow-legged, tummy sticking out.  It is really adorable.  I read in a book somewhere that children learn to walk by mimicking their parents, so perhaps I need to consider my walking style.

Samuel has taken to whistling. . . a lot.  And I've been grumpier than usual, so I'm often telling him all day to cut it out (in a bit of a gruff tone).  I hope I'm not scarring him for life.  On the positive side, he must be happy to be constantly wanting to make such noise "music."



Miriam, all dressed up.

Miriam is growing into her middle name, Dolores, at least as far as it favors her Great Grandma Dolores Stroda.  While Miriam continues to be sweet and kind and loving, she has this growing bossy attitude.  She wants things done how she wants them and done and while she is sweet and polite about it, her persistence can be overwhelming!

Jacob is really blooming at his school studies. . . when I can manage to keep him in the same room as me to get them done!  He seems to really enjoy reading now, although I don't think he would admit that, but he will gladly sit down and let me read to him and ask him questions about the text as we go.  He is also quite proficient in Math and LOVES to do Science.  His only trouble is handwriting.  Since Math has lots of writing it is definitely a chore to get done.  And as for writing sentences. . . oh buddy, the challenge is real.  I'm going to laugh when he becomes a writer some day - hah.


Random picture of Rebekah and Zipporah, for your viewing pleasure.


Rebekah has started this habit of drinking from her cup sideways.  Seriously, she holds it up to only have her mouth, purses her lips real tight and drinks.  I try not to comment but just seeing it drives me nuts.  At least she has it down and does not spill or anything.

Paul has been grumpier than usual lately, but I'm chalking it up to the holidays.  He carries a lot of energy in all he does and that can be overwhelming at times.  He was throwing himself full-throttle into his school work, but he is only in kindergarten, so there really is not that much to do!  He will easily be done with Math by the end of January and his Literature will be close behind - as will the rest of the his work.  I'm wondering if his teacher has any tips for us as this happens (I forgot to bring it up in our last conference).  There are lots of educational games for him to play on the computer, but I don't think more screen time is the answer.  If more "official school" curriculum is not available I just might need to get him some extra workbooks of some sort.  Unlike his older brother, Jacob, Paul LOVES to write and even wrote a letter to Grandma - all on his own!




Around the House:

I taught Rebekah and Samuel how to do laundry, but honestly I like doing it myself.  Samuel is still the best at folding and putting the clothes away, but he is grumpy about it.  Miriam is the most eager and a little helpful, Paul is even more helpful, but neither of them are good at keeping the drawers neat - surprise, surprise.  Fortunately we have low standards around here.

A while back our oven died and we picked up another used one that was nicer than our old one!  And get this, the new one has A SELF-CLEANING feature!!  I used it the other day and it turned out great!

All the kids are are getting better at getting their dishes into the dishwasher after meals and that is such a blessing.  Although, once again, Samuel is the best at getting the table cleaned off.  Rebekah can do it, but she often comes up with some mostly-plausible excuse to not have to (just like her Daddy).  

As for cooking, Rebekah and Samuel are both quite helpful in making simple meals.  Now we all just need to learn some more recipes!

Faith

We had a friend over to play the other day - a friend we see at church regularly - and somehow my older kids got on this kick bragging about the prayers they know!  They were going on and on and while I am glad they know lots of prayers, I was thoroughly embarrassed to have them flaunting them that way!  Oh humility.  I guess I have been focusing a little too much on the "bare bones" (aka, the words to the prayers) and not enough on the spirit behind the prayers!  Back to the drawing board here.

Our Advent wreath continues to be a hit.  Rebekah and Samuel take turns lighting the candles.  Samuel reads one of our devotionals and Rebekah reads the Scripture for the Jesse Tree ornament.  If I forget, they always remind me.

Gordie and I have been consistent with our Night Prayer (from the Liturgy of the Hours) finally, due to an Advent resolution on my part.

Fun

Gordie was going to put climbing stones on the OUTSIDE of the garage and get harnesses and everything and have the kids climb all the way to the top (two stories up!) but then he realized anchoring the stones on the second story would mess up his drywall inside our playroom.  So instead he came up with this idea for an indoor wall!  The kids all love it and he can hardly wait to get materials to make more - thinking of having the kids climb horizontally around the room.  Gordie is also hoping to put some handles on the ceiling for the kids to swing from to get around as well.



Rebekah received the game Dixit from St. Nicholas and it has been a hit.  Her artistic side really enjoys the pictures I think and it is simple enough that she has been able to play it with Samuel and her cousins when they came and her friends.

Speaking of which, St. Nick brought the game  Suspend to Jacob and of course the pieces have never been used in the recommended "game form" but they have gotten non-stop action as building tools, of course.  Jacob has built everything from collapsible planes to giant leaning sky-scrapers.


Picnic in December?  Sure, why not?

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Journal #30

Out My Window:

A beautiful Fall day.  It is almost 80 degrees, the sun is shining, a gentle breeze is about.

Clothing Myself In: 

Work-out capri pants and the shirt I wore to Mass this morning.  I started to change and apparently got distracted in the middle.  Don't worry, I'll be sure to make myself presentable if I decide to go out in public.

Around the House:

I'm starting to feel the clutter.  I really need to go through and deep clean/trash a bunch of stuff sort and organize. . . probably every room in the house, but I just cannot catch a break!  I am busy from sun up to sun down with the regular house duties of cooking and cleaning and schooling.  Then our extra-curricular activities in the evenings and weekends more of the same - still the meals, cooking and cleaning and often school stuff to finish up or activities I promised the kids.  I need a good solid chunk of time to devote to this "project" for the next couple weeks and sadly I do not see it happening.  But that's just life these days.  Maybe if we get a little ahead we could take a day off school and the kids and I could tackle a room together.  That might be interesting.

The Baby:


I found Zipporah sleeping like this when I went in to wake her from her nap.  Babies can sleep in any position it seems.


She walks, she talks.  Well, ok, she is walking much more - and oh so proud of herself.  She honestly rarely crawls anymore.  But she still walks fairly carefully and falls some.  She talks. . . well, sometimes when she is worked up she will call for Mamamamama  or Dadadada and I'm pretty sure she knows what she is doing, but it is not a frequent thing.  She also says "hi" in response to someone greeting her - though not always.  She has an extensive passive vocabulary, though - as she is very perceptive and thus far can get what she wants with a mere cry or gesture, so why bother with words?  Plus, she is just perfecting her stride, so I imagine the words are next on her "to do" list.

She also went in for her 15-month-check (a few weeks late) and here are the stats:
Weight: 25lbs, 8 oz (75%)
Height: 31 & 1/4 inches (50%)
Head: 47 cm (75%)

So, she is no longer a "runt" and all is well again in the growth of dear Ms. Zipporah.


The Kids & Homeschooling:

Paul is going through a bit of a phase now.  School WAS so cool and now he is often "so tired" and just needs to "play a minute."  But fortunately he is so far ahead, I have no qualms about giving him a break.  He is 60% done with his Math - his favorite subject.  If he keeps up this pace he will finish it by the end of January.  I'm trying not to push him or hold him back. When it is done, if he wants more, I will find something else for him to do.  If he burns out and does not want to do more, I will give him a break.  He has earned it think.

Jacob continues to give me grief, but I think he is in a "growing up" phase and will soon come around.  Some days he surprises me.

Rebekah and Samuel keep plugging along, but I often have them do work in the evenings or on weekends as I spend most of my day helping Jacob and Paul.  They take it well, though.

Miriam continues to learn and grow, much like a flower in the wild.  I do not specifically work with her, but she has many educational toys (puzzles, pretend play, paper and pencil) that she employs throughout the day.  She counted animals on a page in a book this afternoon - up to 8, one-to-one correspondence.  That is impressive for a three-year-old in my opinion.  

All the school-aged kids are doing a "Marathon" as a challenge for school.  Basically I am logging their miles walked or time spent doing activities like swimming or biking (15 minutes of activity = 1 mile).  Once they get to 26.2 I will send their sheets in and they will get a t-shirt and their picture and name on the "wall of fame" and such.  It seems like a fun idea to make sure the kids are getting their exercise!  Rebekah has been really enjoying walking with me anyhow, so this is a great excuse for us to keep it up.

In the Kitchen:

I wanted to share a recipe that I have been making pretty-regularly, just for myself (as it contains entirely too many veggies for the rest of my family) and really enjoying.  I make a big pan and then eat on it for basically a week.  It is called Almost 5-Ingredient Pizza Spaghetti Pie.  I add mushrooms and black olives to mine, as well as more eggs - well and generally just more of everything, as the recipe says to bake it in an 8x8 pan, but my spaghetti squash usually over-flows that on its own, so I upgrade to the 13x9 pan.




Also, we made an octuple batch of cookies the other day.  I had just picked up this 16 quart stock pot on sale at Dillons (as I have been looking for one for a while) and it was perfect for the job.  We used a drill and a paint mixer to mix the dough. (I had purchased the paint mixer - for cooking purposes - after my dear hubby had broken my last four beaters trying to mix my natural peanut butter that I had let sit too long.)  It was a lot of fun.  We needed cookies for a party we were attending, for our family to enjoy, and some for the freezer.  Other than the annoyance of spending over two hours baking them, everything went well.







It took both of us at the end.  I needed both hands on the drill so Gordie held the bowl.


And you can see the bottom!  Thank God I was almost done baking at this point.  If we do a batch this big again I will probably freeze half the batter as that was a lot of cookies to manipulate in and out of the oven all evening!


Thinking About:

Money.  Spiritual growth.  The Sacrament of Marriage.  And trying to prepare for Advent!

Bringing Me Joy:

My children - and getting to spend the day home with them, learning and playing.  It is such a blessing.

Pictures to Share:


Rebekah, Zipporah, Miriam, and Samuel.  Zipporah was just smiling, but my camera is often too slow to catch it.

Still not quite a smile, but closer.



Gordie and I stopping to smile during the great cookie making process.

Friday, October 16, 2015

Friday Funnies, Part 1

I have a confession to make. . . I am a pack rat.  Among the many things I save are those funny pictures I come across on the internet.  They are by no means original to me, or new - you have probably seen them before.  But, since they are in fact funny, and I think the world could use more funny, especially on Fridays, I have decided to begin my own installment of "Friday Funnies."  Here is the inaugural run.  Enjoy!











Monday, October 12, 2015

Journal #29, posted a day late

Out My Window:

It is a bit hot for October in my opinion - up in the 80's I think.  We have not had our A/C on for the past couple of weeks and I was too stubborn to turn it on today, but I did turn the A/C fan on to circulate the air some, along with our ceiling fans.

Clothing Myself In:

Jeans, a "work-out shirt" - according to the category it was sorted in by the store (aka a dry-fit v-neck dark maroon/purply colored shirt that I use for dress - don't judge, ok, I like my "dress" clothes to hold up to "daily living") and bare feet now, but I had on my cute sandals for church - although this really was a "dress down" outfit for a Sunday Mass for me.  But I knew I would be wrangling the kiddos alone and I was running short on time this morning.

Around the House:

My dear husband finally built me a VERY NICE shelf on my back porch.  I only asked him to do that about four or five years ago (with very little reminding after the first year or so. . . not all projects get completed around here), so imagine my surprise to walk out and discover it actually done!!  In any case, it lead to a little bit of rearranging and I am soon hoping to add some more hooks so we can have a proper "mud room" for shoes and coats.  This is perfect because we had been keeping them by the front door, but that is silly since we park our cars in the back and always leave through the back door.  The only catch is that the back porch is not heated, but we will still keep our socks inside, so if shoes and coats are a bit chilly, the kids can deal I figure - plus less snow dripping on my floor - win win!

Around the "digital house" I am feeling a little bit of guilt for such a break in blogging.  Apparently the last time I did this type of journal was back in May.  No wonder I only need to print my blog every two years.  Oddly I took only about five pictures in September, too and that is very unlike me, but I'm sure I will make up for it during the winter holidays - as usual.

The Baby:

She walks now. . . although not all the time.  She will now take 10-15 baby steps.  And by that I mean teeny tiny steps.  She is so funny.  She is very caught up on not loosing her balance, but then once she thinks she might, she just falls down on her bum, no sweat.  She is such a silly.  I may be recalling wrong, but I would swear the other kids just tried a few shaking normal-sized steps in the beginning and then soon walked fairly "normal-sized" (for a one-year-old stride) steps right away.  But Zipporah has proven time and again that she will do things the way she wants to do things!

Zipporah LOVES spaghetti, but she uses it like war paint so we have to strip her down to eat.


At mealtimes I like to read books to the children.  Zipporah knows this, so the second I start reading she will start bellowing and then look at me and laugh and giggle.  Usually she stops after a bit, but oh it frustrates me sometimes!  And she knows EXACTLY what she is doing.

Another of Zipporah's favorite games is to hand something to you.  Then you can give it back and she will hand it again.  She will play this back-and-forth bit for hours if you have the patience.  Supposedly that is a sign of good communication skills for a baby I guess.  That does not surprise me, as she is very aware of her place in the family - youngest of six and is much happier when her siblings are around, as compared to when they are absent.

The Homeschooling:

Things are going well for the kids thus far.  We are actually on-target or even a little bit ahead.  Paul has over half of his math done for the year.  It really helps that he CONSTANTLY wants to "do schoolwork."  I mean, ALL DAY LONG he asks to do more.  Now, for Math and Phonics he does really well.  Although he is equally eager for Science and Literature, he is not quite the natural in those.  But he consistently keeps chugging away at it.  Even handwriting does not phase him - he just plows through - and does a pretty good job, too!

Jacob complains he does not like reading, but he does really well in Phonics and when he finally sits down to read he only misses a few words.  I think he often surprises himself how well he does.  He also whines over Math, but mostly just because he does not like writing the answers.  He can find them out fine, but he DESPISES writing.  And getting him to actually write in his handwriting book?!?!  That is PURE TORTURE for this poor little boy.

Samuel and Rebekah both REALLY REALLY like Spelling City for their spelling lessons.  So much so that they are each about half way done in spelling right now - two months into the year.  Generally they do ok working through their subjects alone, with the exception of composition and sometimes Math (if they have trouble with a new concept).  We often work on composition on the weekends.  This weekend Rebekah and I are working on her research paper!  Hopefully we can get all the composition for both Samuel and Rebekah knocked out before Christmas so we can take the spring semester a little easier.

The Kids:

Rebekah is taking on more and responsibility and doing so most gracefully - thank God.  She almost never tells me "no" or gives me attitude when I ask her to do almost anything - usually take care of one of her siblings in some fashion.  She is eager to help me cook and clean.  Often if I am cleaning or organizing, she will ask how she can help.

All the "big kids" (Rebekah, Samuel, Jacob, & Paul) helped build this "turtle."  They were pretty proud of themselves.


Samuel and Rebekah are both gaining more and more cooking skills all the time.  They can both make waffles, Annie's mac and cheese, scrambled eggs, and pudding (from a box).  I also employ them to do various tasks when I'm making the family meals - such as stir this, or flip those, or peel these potatoes!

Jacob is giving me a lot of attitude lately - most of it toward school, but also about some other simple things like brushing his teeth.  Of course, in Jacob's defense he has always been a little more sensitive about some things and brushing his teeth is one of them.  I just recently realized at our last dentist appointment (when I found out Jacob was going to need a ROOT CANAL) that he has been completely ignoring my command to brush his teeth at night and in the morning.  Now I make a point of helping him myself or having one of the older children do so.  I think he is getting better - at least he will attempt on his own, rather than just ignoring me.

Side Note: He did not end up having the root canal.  It was necessary because the dentist had given him a filling the visit before, but it had fallen out and for some reason I had not taken him in to get it fixed again!!  I had the appointment scheduled to get the filling fixed and everything, but for some reason I canceled it and never rescheduled - and for the life of me I cannot remember why now!  In any case, the tooth in question was a baby tooth, so why they wanted to do a root canal in the first place is beyond me.  But when they went to get started the concluded it was too far gone, so they just pulled the tooth and today they put a spacer in (a few weeks after - so it was all healed up) that should allow his permanent tooth to come in fine and reserve its space.

Anyhow, I spend most of my day in an effort to keep Jacob on the schoolwork train and oh my it can be exhausting and frustrating!  Now, let me say first off, he does NOT have an excessive amount of work.  If he gave me a good three hours, maybe four on days we do Science or Social Studies, that would be fine and he could easily have it done by lunch if he tried.  Anyhow, I'm not big into bribes - although I will give a bead for a day's worth of school work completed (and 10 beads gets a prize from our box - which is mostly little lego sets and a few other crafty things), but I am also realistic.  So while sort-of bribing (with the bead) I simultaneously give "consequences" such as if school work is not mostly completed (given to Mom's decision at that time), participation in after-school activities for that evening is prohibited.  So for Jacob that means no Aikido on Tuesdays or Thursdays and no Boy Scouts on Mondays.  This is fine as a motivator, but let me tell you, when he does not get his work done, not only does he feel punished, but so do I - punished as I paid for these activities and I REALLY want him THERE, not at home doing the school work he should have done all day!  It can really be frustrating to say the least, but I just keep figured we need to press on and hopefully he will start to mature soon.

Paul is mostly his energetic excited self about everything - constantly asking questions and always having a comment to make.  Lately he has taken to playing with Miriam and let me say they are quite a pair.  Miriam imitates Paul and the two of them are a tiny tornado of disturbance.  It does not help that Miriam is definitely in the throes of the threes - giving some attitude now and again and still crying and throwing fits rather than using words.  Fortunately she can be reminded to use words and the fits/crying end shortly after.  But Paul really gets on her nerves and I'm not sure if he is purposefully doing it or it is just the way he plays - very active and opinionated about how things go, but he causes her tears quite frequently.  In any case, she is certainly learning to stand up for herself and for that I'm grateful.

In the Kitchen

I recently broke my crockpot while cleaning it.  It slipped through my hands into the sink.  God knows I've dropped it a million times - this must have been the final straw.  In any case, I was about to buy another one when I read the reviews about ceramic pots leaching lead into your food?!?!  While I would like to think it is just a scare, with so many things coming from China and their standards being different and all, well, I was torn as to what to do.  Should I buy a "fancier" (aka more expensive crockpot) that is supposed to not leach lead from the glaze?  Or should I just buy the cheap crock that I've been using for years anyhow and not worry about it?  Well, I asked the question of my online motherhood group and they suggested I get a pressure cooker instead as it can be used a slow cooker AND as a pressure cooker, obviously, AND it has a stainless steel tub.  Problem solved!  Unfortunately it is about four times as expensive, but. . . after some deliberation (and the fact that I had some cashback bonus from our credit card built up) I took the plunge.  I settled on this "instant pot" from amazon.  It has been AWESOME.  This thing cooks stuff SO FAST and SO WELL!!  

For my first dish I steamed potatoes in 15 minutes (well, more like 20, as it had to get up to pressure first) and then made soup with the "soup" button in 25 minutes and it was SO GOOD!  The next day I made steamed apples with cinnamon and sugar - the kids LOVED those.  And I finished out the weekend with chili, slow-cooker style.  It was perfect.  I am eager to put in some roast tomorrow, using the traditional slow-cooker-style and then slowly build my pressure-cooker recipes.  

Thinking about:

Prayer.  Praying with the children.  Praying with my husband.  My own prayer life.  Pray,  pray, pray!

Bringing me joy:

My new "toy" for the kitchen (as mentioned above), Aikido, long runs on nice days, watching BBC Sherlock and Bones with my hubby.

Pictures to share:




   
Nana had brought back crowns for the girls from a retreat she went on.  She requested a picture.  This was the best I could do.  Yeah, I think I failed, too, but maybe we can try again another time.

Friday, September 25, 2015

7 Quick Takes - about Zipporah

As I have not been keeping up on the blogging much lately I decided to just do a quick update on Zipporah as she is the one doing the most changing these days.  No, it is not her birthday or anything, but she is just growing up so much!





1) Zipporah is done nursing (as of about 14-months-old).

This one kinda broke my heart, but she was ready to grow up and move on - she just quit cold-turkey one day and has not looked back.


2) She is ALMOST walking.

She has been cruising on the furniture and standing unassisted for some time now.  She has her balance down, she just needs to give the walking thing a chance.  A few days ago she took two steps and then popped back down to the ground to crawl and she did it again yesterday.  I expect her to be toddling all over soon.


3) Zipporah loves to dance!

We have one of those Leap Frog farm matching toys on our fridge (well, actually we have two of them).  She LOVES to use her long fingers to make Farmer Tad play his banjo.  And as he shares his tune, she wiggles her hips and bends her knees.

4) She often will not let us rock her to sleep anymore.

Once she stopped nursing, Gordie and I both took turns rocking her to sleep.  But now she often is not in a mood for that.  She will not snuggle and be still - she will push up and play with my face.  So she gets put in her crib, but she does not object.  She just calmly lets me tuck her in and watches me leave.  I'm not complaining, just documenting.  She is such a unique child.


5) Speaking of sleep, Zipporah is oddly content in her bed.

Seriously, I usually go get her at about 9am most mornings (other than when we go to 8am Mass, of course) and she really does not complain before that.  If she wakes up, she sits and ponders the meaning of the universe (in silence) or calmly looks over the small bucket of toys I keep near the corner of her bed.  The same goes for her waking up from her naps - often she is awake long before I go in to get her, but even when I have the monitor on, often the only notice she gives to being awake is the slight rustle of her toys.  We definitely won the "baby lottery" with her.

6) She still sucks her thumb some.

Generally she does it to calm down (such as after bonking her head at church) or when she is tired, just before going to sleep.

7) Zipporah has an amazing attention span.

She will sit and play with one toy (or set of toys) for hours at a time, especially if someone is joining her.  Miriam and Zipporah have the most amazing tea parties, and pony parties, and pony tea parties!  She will sit like a little lady and daintily pick up cups or toy food, never tiring of the game.  And if Rebekah wants to play with her, then she is guaranteed to be content for the day.  She really loves her siblings and even from the first day we brought her home as a baby, showed preference to being around them, even in their most boisterous and crazy states!



Monday, August 31, 2015

My Recet Random Recommendations

I have reached a point in my life again where I have opinions about things and recommendations.  So here they are. . . the things that matter to me right now and thus what I have been researching and studying and making decisions about.


Books that help broach and explain difficult topics:

This is a wonderful book for an initial understanding of what Chris West so eloquently calls "the one-flesh-union."  It is beautifully written and easy to read (aka short with lots of pictures).  I sit down and read it to my kiddos when they are "of age" (which I feel is my discretion and changes depending on the child).

2) The Ultimate Girls' Body Book

This is a great book for your daughter to read independently and then come to you to clarify any questions she might have.  It covers almost everything I can think of from growing breasts to tattoos and although the authors are not Catholic, they are VERY CHRISTIAN and it shows in their great presentation of the body as being VERY GOOD.  They are also doctors so that adds some credibility to their advice and suggestions.

3) The Ultimate Boys' Body Book

I have a confession here. . . although this book is currently in possession, I have not read it yet.  But I read the one for girls and was incredibly impressed.  I am hoping to buzz through this one soon and pass it on to my oldest son.


4) Good Pictures Bad Pictures

This book covers pornography.  It is written so you can sit down and read it with your child.  It has a great message and plan of approach for the topic.  And I would venture to say this is an important topic to cover BEFORE your children stumble on it themselves and get all confused and other issues potentially develop.  If you are worried about "exposing them" to this too soon, I would not worry about this book doing that.  It is informative and precise, but not explicit.  I think it does a great job of conveying what the concern is and how to avoid it.

This book does a great job of addressing topics for girls in a positive way.  It includes references to the catechism.  It emphasizes many girls' attraction and concern for fashion and social topics - addressing that these are common for women and girls to be concerned about, but then to encourage taking things a bit further - to be Christ to your friends, to focus on prayer, not get caught up in social details, etc.

Bras - for nursing or just regular wear

I am still on this restorative exercise kick.  And part of it deals with the clothing you wear as obviously you need to wear clothing that allows your body to move as it should.  In any case, to be blunt, Katy (my restorative exercise guru) says that your hanging bits are basically meant to hang!  This includes women's hanging bits.  And man has this been a game changer for me.  I kept trying to find the PERFECT bra - that was supportive but not oppressive.  I have since concluded it does not exist.  And instead I have found that bras with LESS support are working much better for me!!  I slowly cut down on my bra-wearing, often going without in the evenings and then lighter support during the day.  Now I still wear a bra basically all day, but it is simply an organic cotton slip-on and it is bliss - pure bliss :)

I buy from a company called "Decent Exposures" and they are awesome.   You order exactly what you want (each bra is custom made) and then if you have any problems, they adjust it for free within the first 60 days and then for a small fee, they will even adjust it after that - up to creating an entirely new bra for you!  (such as if you needed a bigger cup size)  They are so friendly and helpful.  I ordered my first bra, had it adjusted, liked it, and decided to order two more.  Since it was fairly close to the first order they went ahead and gave me a discount for buying three at a time!

The only downside is that since each bra is custom made, it takes a bit for your order to be processed (like several weeks to a month) but I feel it is worth the wait to get exactly what I want.

You CAN get nursing flaps on these, but honestly since they are simply pull-on bras, I just slip down to nurse, easy peasy - no cups to flip, no clasps to find, no boobs hanging out half of Mass because I could not get properly readjusted.  These are the most awesome bras ever.

Saturday, August 22, 2015

7 Quick Takes - Random life

1) This is how Rebekah spent a good part of our first official day of school: doing her and her sister's hair!



Later she decided she wanted to look like Julius Caesar:


2) Miriam has insisted on wearing/carrying this backpack around the house - everywhere.



I have no idea where she got this idea.  None of the other kids have backpacks right now.  We are not going anywhere that she might need a backpack.  She has been doing this for about a week now.  I will be curious to see how long it lasts.

3) Rebekah got some new shoes.

She bought them with her own money (they are on sale right now - 50% off!!).  They are Kigo brand (I have two pairs of the same kind - different style and color).  I think they suit her well.




4) We now have rock behind our garage.

Since we own two giant vehicles that we are unable to actually put IN our garage, we would normally park them beside or behind the garage on the grass or dirt at the edge of the alley.  Well, the alley was recently redone as the city replaced the gas lines, so we decided now was a great time to go ahead and rock around the garage.  We are most pleased and parking is so much better.



5) Jacob is now SEVEN-YEARS-OLD!!

Time flies.  In any case, I was lazy for the actual day of his birthday (we had a party with extended family a few days earlier) so he got "birthday cookies" complete with candles.  Great-Mom-of-the-year award here.


6) The National Right to Life is doing a campaign right now called "Can't put a price on Life."

Here is the picture I submitted for them to use.


7) I made it to the Sacrament of Reconciliation today.

All I can say is that NEVER gets old!!  Praise God for forgiveness!